Dating Secrets

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Author: Damian De Angelo


Dating is complicated. There's no way to sugarcoat it, but there are tips and advice that can help you uncover dating secrets crucial to your happiness. You've always wanted an active dating life, but never knew how to get out there and grab it, until now. The biggest challenge for anyone entering, or re-entering the dating scene is to remember a few basic rules.These rules will prevent you from scaring or insulting your date, and maybe even prevent you from embarrassing yourself altogether.


The first of the dating secrets you need to know is; if you ask for the date, you plan the date. Asking a girl to go on a date with you, and making her plan all the details will make a second date unlikely. You should know (before date night) where you're going for dinner, and have a plan for after dinner since you'll probably want a goodnight kiss. The first date is your only chance to really show your date that you know how to treat Alard, and making her do all the work doesn't exactly scream `I'm the guy for you'.


Dating secrets are only secret because everyone is too ashamed to talk about them, and that's especially true with the next one. Never, under any circumstances go into detail about your previous relationships. Trust me, nothing good will come from this conversation. If you have bad things to say about your ex,you'll seem insane and if you have good things to say, it'll look as if you still have a thing for them. I know it doesn't seem sincere, but simply state whether or not you were in previous relationship and that it didn't work out. There's no reason to reveal your entire dating history on the first few dates, some dating secrets are best reserved for a later date.


A few other obvious tips not to talk about when you are on ad ate are money, religion, and politics. Anything that might be controversial is best to avoid altogether on a first date. It might seem like something you want to know, but if you move too fast or come across super opinionated about something, you will only turn her away or could even make her angry. Some safe topics include your general interests and hobbies. You can also include tidbits on your family, your career, and realistic goals you have for yourself. Don't overwhelm her and don't make yourself seem "unreal." Make sure you ask her questions about herself and her hobbies without prying too much as well. Try to enjoy getting to know her and really see where it takes you.


Some dating secrets are so outdated that you probably don't feel comfortable knowing what's true and what isn't. The increase in forward women going after what they want often means asking a guy on a date is no longer shocking. Whoever asks for the date pays for the date. Plenty of women have been getting a free ride because this is one of those dating secrets that aren't so secret. Whether it's a black tie affair or a simple Saturday night date, if you ask, you pay.



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Dating Advice For People Who Work A Lot

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Author: Ron Zvagelsky.

In our busy world of today, people are working longer hoursthan ever before. In addition to this, a sizeable percentage ofthe populations is working and going to school at the same time.

While working a lot can give you a tremendous advantage when itcomes to your career, it does not give you a lot of time todate. If you find yourself spending a great deal of timestudying or working, you may be wandering why you're alone. Itmay not be obvious that your schedule is the primary reason.There are a number of strategies you can use to deal with thissituation, but perhaps one of the best is online dating.

Online dating essentially allows you to meet someone onlinefrom the comfort of your own computer. Not only can it be anexcellent resource for those who work at lot, it is also a greattool for those who are shy or afraid of rejection. There areboth free and paid dating services online, and there is a datingcompany that covers every region in the world. All you have todo is sign up and begin looking at the various profiles of theother members. Make a list of the members who have yourinterests and desirable characteristics. Once you've compiledthis list, send them all a message. The more messages you send,the higher probability you have of getting a favorable response.

Once you have met someone you're interested in, you can get toknow them online before meeting them in person. Another usefulstrategy for those who work long hours is to meet someone atyour job or college. However, it should be noted that somecompanies have policies regarding dating among co-workers, so itis important to make sure you are not violating the guidelinesof your company before preceeding. If you are a college student,there can be no doubt that there are plenty of people in yourclasses that you're interested in. If you are a man, it islikely that you've spotted a woman in your college class thatyou'd be interested in dating. If you are a woman, the same canbe said for you.

It may be possible for the two of you to get together for asession of studying, or incorporate it into your date. Not onlywill you be having fun, but you will also be studying for animportant quiz or research paper. My advice to you is to notallow your schedule to interfere with your ability to date.While hard work and education is important, you should also beable to enjoy yourself and have a good time.

About The Author: Ron Zvagelsky has a degree in BusinessAdministration from the University of Southern California. Hegraduated Magna Cum Laude in May 2006. He is currently the ChiefExecutive Officer of PlanJam - a new interactive planningwebsite for http://www.planjam.com/weblog

Is Online Dating For Me?

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Author: Adam Douglas

If you've been in the dating game for a bit too long, you know how hard it is to find a good match. If you are a woman, you might have even tried to wear more revealing outfits to compete with the younger girls, only to find yourself still single. And if you are a man, you might be feeling the pressure and tend to come on like gang busters to any woman walking. Well don't feel too bad because obviously there are a lot of people still single and will continue to act like this. The good thing for you is that you no longer will!

Looking at the type of women men love is a good indicator of what men are looking for; but not necessarily in the most literal sense. Whether it's Angelina Jolie or the average-looking receptionist all the guys drool over; finding out what it is about these women men love can give you clues to what you lack. I think that once you dig inside what it is these women have to offer, you would be surprised.

When you look at the type of women men love you probably consider looks first, but the one characteristic all these women possess is intelligence. Whether you want to believe it or not,men love intelligent women and showing a man how smart you are will pique his interest. If you want to be one of the women men love, stop focusing so much on why you don't have a boyfriend and own your independence. Smart women strive to achieve their goals, which gives them less time to tend to their man's every want and need.

In addition to intelligence, women men love are incredibly confident. The level of independence that comes with pursuing your goals can give you quite the confidence boost. Wearing your confidence (not conceited) like a badge can be the equivalent to spraying pheromones in a bar; just a few puffs and watch the men swarm! You will be so focused on celebrating your new found success that instead of reeking of desperation, you are now one of the women men love.

Being one of those women men love also requires a certain level of self-awareness. It may be that you are, in fact one of the women men love, but perhaps you aren't looking for the right kind of man. If you don't know yourself well enough to recognize bad match, you probably aren't ready for a relationship anyway. Next time you find yourself observing the women men love, notice how the partnerships are equal. Looking to your partner for your own happiness only leads to unmet expectation sand disappointment.

Focus on yourself and your own happiness first and you will be sure to become one of the women men love no matter what. Look for a new job or start that catering business you've always wanted. Not only will your confidence soar, but you'll have to fight the fellas off with a stick!

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Looking For A Guy: Are You Making Any Of These 6 Fatal Mistakes

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Author: Wendy N. Lapidus-Saltz
When you coach women on attracting relationship as I do, youget a bird's eye view of what can go wrong when a woman looksfor the potential love-of-her-life. Fortunately, I usually knowwhat to do about those things. I'm going to tell you, though youmay not like hearing what I have to say. So read, take a breath,be honest with yourself, and consider making some changes. Hereare the usual problems:

1. You're desperate and it shows.

You'd think there's not much more to say about that, butthere's the problem: most women don't know they look desperate.And yes, you can look desperate without actually beingdesperate. You may just be on Desperation Highway, headingtoward Desperation, but not there yet. Clues? You're passingWorried Road, Concerned Boulevard, Agitated Avenue, and NervousCircle.
If you can't tell where you're at, ask a good, honest friend—orseveral. They'll set you straight.
So how do you avoid feeling or looking desperate? Be sure toenjoy your life as it is now, guy or no guy. But don't fill itso full that you can't make room for the right one when he showsup. Truly enjoy your friends and your freedom. Relationship isgreat but it does give you someone to sort-of "answer to," nomatter how independent you are. Right now you don't have thoseconstraints, so live it up.

2. You keep mentioning your age and the lack of possibilities.

One of the things I do in my mind-coaching practice in Chicagois hypnosis.
And I have to tell you that hammering yourself—and others—aboutyour age and how it's too late, etc.—is self hypnosis at itsbest. I mean best as in most powerful.
Of course the effect of all this negative self hypnosis is theworst. Because it's exactly the opposite of what you want.
Want to hypnotize yourself? Learn how. And learn how to makethe suggestions positive, life-affirming, supportive andpointing toward your goal (getting the right guy, right?) andnot away from it.

3. You specifically reject the guys who would make great husbands.

Guys who'd make good husbands are often not glamorous, dashing,arrogant, or lying scums. They rarely look like Hollywood'sleading men. Nor do they act like those men; this includeshaving a new galpal every month.
Looks don't last. Wounds to the heart unfortunately do.

4. You're looking for the same guy you looked for at age 16.

You were cute then but stupid about love. Which was okay at thetime because you weren't looking for Mr. Forever or even Mr.For-A-Very-Long-Time. Now you are. Update your thoughts,opinions, goals and hunting spots.
You're not wearing the same wardrobe you wore in the 80's, areyou?

5. You ignore the best places to meet guys because they're notglamorous.

Church/synagogue/temple/mosque; places where people with yourinterests congregate; homes of friends of friends of friends;work (complicated but often worthwhile—make sure he'sunattached, bonus if you don't work together directly).

6. You ignore the best guys because they're not glamorous.

Tell the truth. You're attracted to the glamour boys eventhough you know they're heart breakers. Yes, Jolie seems to beholding onto Pitt for now (check the fan rags tomorrow becauseit may have changed) , but they share an exclusive culture. Forevery degree of heat your man exudes, there are fifty womenvying for his attention.
Sometimes the guys without fab muscles, bountiful hair, bedroomeyes or honeyed words to exploit are the best catches. They meanwhat they say, they stick around, they use their brains, andthey don't hog the mirror.

If you can find a guy who really lights you up without lightingup the entire room, you likely have a keeper. Hint: if youdecide to redo his hair, wardrobe, and cologne, do it after thewedding. And don't say I didn't warn ya.

©2007 by WendyLapidus-Saltz.
All rights reserved.
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About The Author: Wendy Lapidus-Saltz, principal of Jaguar MindLLC,
is a mind coach certified in hypnotherapy, NLP and otherdisciplines.
She created the Hypno-Attraction® Hypnosis for LoveCD and workshops on the topic of love and relationship. Heroffice is located in Chicago's Gold Coast area.
Websites:http://www.hypno-attraction.com
andhttp://www.nonsmoker4life.com

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